I want to erase the word "HAPPY" and replace it with "JOY!" What is happy? The key to life is finding "JOY" in any situation. I have seen people I know and love face the most horrific experiences that anyone could ever imagine: losing children to gun violence, terrorism, cancer, facing stage 4 diagnoses. The one thing I've found that keeps them getting up each morning putting one foot in front of the other is their why, their passionate purpose and meaning that leads to JOY. They use their unimaginable experiences to help others and solve the problem that created their despair through awareness, funding research, fighting unjust laws and governments etc. Happiness is bullshit. Find and pursue your meaning, passionate purpose and you will have lived a good, meaningful and JOY filled life.